I think this meeting would be a very good case study comparing men's and women's social behaviour. We talked about it with Miguel on the way home: while the men related to and got to know each other via abstract concepts and discussion about outside events, women went straight to the core, asking questions about each other's life and wanting to learn about the person:

And sadly I know which side of the line I'm on - sulk !!

keep to the Fen Causeway