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It´s too bad the addiction goes so deep and he doesn´t make an effort, but do you realize that complaining is a reminder/trigger that makes him want to smoke even more?  It just reinforces the guilt of the behavior and gives a bad feeling that ´calls´ for a nicotine fix.

Depending on how you relate to him, maybe you can give him positive ideas to not light up, like what makes you glad that you don´t smoke.  Those ideas should come from him, but if you are stuck with an addict, don´t remind him how bad he really is because it won´t work.

Our knowledge has surpassed our wisdom. -Charu Saxena.

by metavision on Sat Nov 22nd, 2008 at 06:42:43 PM EST
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