If I understand you correctly, you're saying that:

1. You fail to grasp why vbo and I express strong feelings of divide between Serbia and Western society.
   
2. The political system of a given constituency is a result of society's sentiment - and that therefore Serb (or Yugoslav) society as a whole is responsible for the events of the past 20 years.
   
3. The fact that worse criminals exist doesn't make the lesser criminals innocent.
   
4. The judicial system we've got in the West is not perfect, but it's the best we've got, so accept it and contribute to making it better instead of complaining.

On 1: The chasm is the result of 20 years incessant demonization of Serbs, their society, their leadership and their national interests by the Western media and its political-military elite. It's a result of the wars waged by the West against Serbia which created about 50 billion Euros of material damage on infrastructure and industry (of no military importance like, for example, bridges in Novi Sad - Vojvodina), catastrophic environmental pollution (like for example, the bombing out of fertilizer plants in Pancevo), not to mention the French, American and German Air Force's unexploded cluster bombs which still maim the innocent in and around Nis and other cities in central and southern Serbia. Some might say I'm harking, but I'm not. I'm simply pointing out the suffering of war that was experienced by Serbian society at large and that will continue to feed feelings of divide for a very long time to come.

On 2: Yes, society somewhat deserves the leadership it has, but this isn't always true. I don't believe the Russians "deserved" Stalin. Although the political elite of the ex-YU republics did sell out, I don't think that they are the only ones to blame. May I point out in most societies with an independent and well functioning judiciary, it's not only a crime to accept a bribe - it's also a crime to offer a bribe.  

On 3: I am not glorifying the Serb ex-leadership. It's just that my condemnation of that leadership is significantly less pronounced than it is in The Hague and some European capitals. Part of the reason is because we're bombarded with condemnation from 90% of MSM. We hear it all the time. Another reason is that I'm much more aware of "the other side of the story" than are most Europeans or Americans who have no links to Serbia and the Balkans.

On 4: The judicial system we've got in some European countries and The Hague in particular is not only imperfect, it's constructed on corrupt foundations. In Italy for example, it's an outright mockery. The judiciary needs to be independent financially and politically - and we all know the ICTY fails on both counts.