or a slob.

En un viejo país ineficiente, algo así como España entre dos guerras civiles, poseer una casa y poca hacienda y memoria ninguna. -- Gil de Biedma

Or shabby or hippie. However, as a tie-and-suit abstainer, while I do feel the societal pressure on me, I wouldn't say it compares in strength to that on (at least young) women. I would (ignorantly) venture to claim however, that another cloth-related pressure I had experience with, that on immigrants, does compare in strength.

_{*Lunatic*, n.
One whose delusions are out of fashion.}

permission to be boring, anonymous, invisible, blended in is fine, though unnecessary. pressure to be same, is not ok.

'The history of public debt is full of irony. It rarely follows our ideas of order and justice.' Thomas Piketty

The permission to be perfectly boring is a great gift.

What a wonderful sentence!  I feel I should embroider it on a pillow or something!

Maybe we can eventually make language a complete impediment to understanding. -Hobbes